You Found Someone Special but May Not Feel Ready For a Relationship! (How to Handle This)

Sometimes you do find yourself in a situation that you come to like someone. You weren’t looking but somehow this person had touched you in a way your head and maybe your heart, just a tiny bit is saying you want to get to know this person. But maybe you just broke up with someone, or you know you’re not looking for a committed relationship although you know this person that you have gotten to know a bit is. They are not looking for casual but looking for something substantial. So what do you do, walk away and keep thinking you’re just not ready and let a good think pass you by. You know that is this type of person can’t stay single for long and why could they be single in the first place. You can either walk away or move on when the timing is right you and chose who is out there then, or you take action. I would say take action, but how? I would express how you feel. Be completely honest and say that although you weren’t looking,” I like you”, can we take this slow? Stating that you really like them and that you do want to get to know them but aren’t in the best place for a relationship gives you a chance to keep this good thing going if they agree. All you have to do is keep in touch. There are so many means of touching base. It takes two minutes to let them know that you care and you are thinking of them. See them slowly but keep the communication open. That is very important. What you might get if you do this, is the person you were meant to be with…your soul mate! Barbara Jeanne xo