Women Faking Orgasms (Take Time To Teach Your Man)

Women don’t fake your orgasms. You may be thinking, either let’s get it over; he is just not getting the spot so just forget about it. If you are not the verbal type you can be faking for a long time without a real orgasm.  You want your guy to feel like he's the man. So many women lie there and may think at times so close but just a little over to the right, left, lower, above. Inside you screaming ugh come on my vagina is not that big. Big mistake, instead you need to take the time to teach him. Tell him or show him exactly what turns you on. What spot drives you crazy and leads you to an orgasm. In the long run, you'll be happier and he will know he really is the man that put that smile on your face. If you continue to fake it, he'll never learn and you won't be such a happy camper. It just snow balls in a negative direction. So tell your man. When you are happier, let’s face it girls, we allow are men to be happier.  Barbara Jeanne xo

DON'T CHASE.. IT HAS TO BE MUTUAL

 When you like someone, you tend to hang on to every word. Asking everyone, what does that mean? When in the other persons mind that you are infatuated with it probably meant absolutely nothing or not literally exactly what was are thinking. In your mind it meant everything. You will do crazy things, ride by the person’s house, call and make up so stupid reason why you need to speak to them. Every song reminds you of them. You must have at least ten songs you can think of right off the top of your head. You also see their favorite things and think; I’ll be nice and pick this up for them. They will like me more for this, wrong! It doesn't make the person like you more. They may think you are a nice person but doesn’t make them more attracted to you, or love you. IF they are not attracted to you and you giving them things, it may make them feel more obligated not to hurt your feelings, but in the end, you don't win. We can't say why someone likes one person and not another, it is just how the world works. If the other person likes you they will let you know, if they don’t they should gently let you go. If they don’t and aren’t treating you right why are they keeping you around? If you have strong feelings it makes it tough to break it off. Why though on their part, if they are not digging you and you can feel it do they call and text just enough to keep you hanging on. Either because they are not sure, or you could be the backup plan. Which makes you are plan B. No one should ever accept to be plan B. Now if there is another girl involved, then you need to bow out, that will not only make you look like a stronger person, it will give the person time to think and actually force them to make a decision. By hanging around you make things too easy on them. Especially If they are taking care of the other person, and you are taking care of them, who is taking care of you. Barbara Jeanne  xo

How To Succeed At On Line Dating

First off, don't lie or pretend you are someone you are not. Don’t lie about your weight, or put up a picture that's old and are really outdated. Most of all don't say you are single if you are in a relationship. If you are still married say you are, separated, or have a girlfriend, boyfriend etc. Treat each person you talk to with, respect and most of all, when you do go out on our date... Act normal! Men act like gentleman and woman act like ladies. Remember first impressions are everything. Keep the conversation light at first but be clear about what both parties’ intentions are. Do you want a long-term relationship, or do you want to keep it causal? The sites have all these boxes that you are supposed to check but, the fact of the matter, until you meet the person you really don't know who or what they are really about. Watch out for the on liners, those are the people that they get more of a high, by just being on line then the actual date. Beware of the people that have no intentions of meeting you. How do you know? They talk, text, e mail, and this seems to go on and on, they are either in a relationship, or you are the back up. Either way you want to be first. If it is someone who is available and ready for a relationship, and more importantly interested they will ask you on a date soon after you two begin talking. Know want you want but be open to someone that is kind, has a good heart and a good potential for a healthy relationship.  Remember the title is on line dating and dating is a casual call and a date. So this can get confusing and that is why you need to be clear. Last but not least, if it feels wrong and you have that feeling, just move on. If they or things don't seem to be right over the computer, or don't seem to have time for you before you meet or even after you meet. Just let it go and move on to find someone that is worth your time, ready and wanting to get to know you. Don't stay in a situation where you are not having fun because you are not in the situation you want, or it is going nowhere. On line dating should be fun, when it gets to be a chore then step away for a while. If you have not met anyone and it’s been years, you need to re-evaluate what may be the problem. Barbara Jeanne xo

How to Please Your Woman Sexually (Step by Step)

If you care about your woman I'm sure you would love to make her feel wonderful during love making and end with a great big orgasm. It would be even better if she would have multiple, boy you would be the man. How? It's simple. When you go down on your woman it is nice to lick, you can ask her where her spot is and what feels best, that is fine. Once you find her spot lick, slowly suck gently and find which method she likes best. Once you know she is excited, don't go down, and move around, or change motion. Keep up the same rhythm, and stay on that spot. After your lady has climaxed, don't stop, keep going softly but with the same rhythm, same place. The area is still sensitive, being able to allow her to flow into another orgasm. If you continue properly she should be able to have at least three or four orgasm, one after another. Barbara Jeanne xo

The Way to Make Love: It's Important to keep Your Partner Wanting You!

People see sex in the movies and think wow I wish that was me, but to them it seems far-fetched and an illusion. You meet someone and if there is chemistry somewhere down the line you two will likely end up having sex. If it happens on the first night, best bet it wasn't that good. So first thing I like to say, waiting is worth the wait to have more meaningful sex that has a better chance to turn into a relationship. If you do become a couple the sex is fun and plentiful, which keeps you wanting more. As time goes by we tend to become a bit lazy. Quickies are spontaneous, but you always need good old fashion love making for a relationship to survive. You can have a hot sweaty sex with a deep passionate kissing and fondling, or soft sensual touching and kissing. Both are considered love making. Couples tend to jump in bed not thinking what they are wearing or their behavior. Many don’t think these things are important. Ladies, men are very visual. They care more about seeing and touching you, and you being confident enough to allow them. Men, women need foreplay, so please don't get in bed stroke their backs and assume they are wet enough to try to stick it in. I am guessing that they are not wet at all. So men, please take the time to find your partners hot spot and learn to get good at it. Ladies, last thing, if you don't like to go down on him, learn to like it because he does. With two satisfied customers it will keep both of you coming back for more. This helps you achieve a better chance for a long lasting relationship. xo BARBARA JEANNE