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Friday
Jun012012

Is It A Relationship Or Just Summer Fun?

It’s almost summer time and some people want to have a significant other to spend the days laughing and nights kissing. A lot of people are also looking to stake out for the hot cuties to have many nights of fun with different people. When you meet someone and you’re hanging out enjoying your time together it would be wise to see where their head is. You need to see if they are out for having fun for the summer or looking for a relationship. There is nothing wrong to ask this casually as you two are in conversation. This way you know where their head is. If you meet them online and you are unsure I would still meet.  Even if they say they only want someone casual meet them you never know. You might be the one to change their mind. It could happen you never know, remember never say never…(wink)  Barbara Jeanne xo

Thursday
May312012

What Makes A Date Turn Into A Second & So On...

What are some of the biggest reason after the first date it doesn’t take off? First off if you don’t have chemistry between the two of you this is going to be a major problem and probably won’t go much further. After that if you don’t have good conversation it definitely is not going to the next level. Have you ever been out and you look at couples that are sitting there and you can almost hear the crickets. If you are more on the shy side think of things to talk about before you go on your date. Conversation is important and as you get more comfortable you will talk and laugh. This is one of the factors and the beginning of learning what you might like about this person. Last and very important do not sleep with this person. First off why would you? You don’t know them well enough to give them something so precious. Wait to get to know a person before you show them all the goods. This leaves so much to look forward to. But a kiss would be absolutely fabulous. Barbara Jeanne xo

Wednesday
May302012

You Want To Be Treated With Love...Here Is How

In a relationship it is important to show your partner what you like. When they meet you and you start to date you are teaching them your ways and how to treat you. They learn your likes and dislikes and what makes you tic. Has you progress you are teaching the person as well the deeper inner qualities of you and the quirks that only their closeness love ones know. What you are doing is building a base of how you two will treat one another. For example if you have a potty mouth, act with little care and feelings and do not expect much, that is what you are going to get from them. If you treat them with tender love, softness and care you make sure this is what you expect back from them. You can’t be sweet as sugar all the time but when you are in a bad mood don’t take it out on the one you say “I love you to”. Find another outlet to get your anger out. If you can do this you will build the base for a great relationship.

Tuesday
May152012

Loving Someone & Not Sure What They're Feeling?

When you are in love with someone and you are not sure if they love you back or as much as you love them you need to relax and breathe. Two things you have to remember, first one always loves a little bit more and second you have to relax and enjoy each time you have. Acting and being so anxious is a turn off and shows lack of confidence. Why do you put them on a pedestal? You make them feel like they are kings and queens and they are ordinary people. They may have great qualities but do not gravel over something that is not there. Maybe it is, but if you run after or push someone in the corner, they are going to run or push back. Allow the relationship to form. By doing so you will know if it is both of you in it together or you wanting. Remember, it's nice to want. So you want to make sure it's not the want on either point but love or at least true like. Have confidence and know that if it works then it is love. Do not ask "do you love me" they may not know yet. By enjoying the time and having fun, good conversation is what builds a good relationship. Patience is a virtue.

Monday
May142012

Mothers & Who We Are

My mom carried me for nine months. She felt sick for those months with nausea, and then she watched her feet swell & her skin stretch. She cried from pain and emotional wreck at times. She struggled to climb stairs, she got breathless quickly and she even suffered many sleepless nights. She then went through excruciating pain to bring me into this world. Then, she became my nurse, my chef, my maid, my chauffeur, my biggest fan, my teacher & my best friend. She’s struggled for me, cried over me, hoped the best for me and prayed for me. Most of us take our mom for granted.