Coming Around Again..Love

When you have a broken heart, life seems like it has stopped. You are almost a vacant lot in motion. Doing what you have to do with just a hurt mind, heart, soul and body. You are almost unable to function. Getting by with what you need to do. Crying on the inside an outside, just feeling extremely hurt.  Your friends or support person tries everything to get you to forget, or to get you to be you again. The friend they know. All you can think of is the hurt you feel. At times it feels good to play sad break up songs, over and over. Wondering when you will feel better. See the sun, the rainbow. If you are willing to play the game, love will come around again. It is just like the song "Itsy Bitsy Spider", the rain washes the hurt away and the sun comes back out. So as your hurt, know that it will eventually leave and you will be able to love again. So it is okay to fall apart, but it is important to have an open heart...to love again. A lot of people, especially men, don't want to feel the hurt they once felt for that special woman they gave their heart to. So they don't or won't give their heart again. They won't even give their heart to someone that they know would be the perfect person for them. This is very sad and tragic; because love is the most essential thing that each of us needs in our life. We are built to be with one another. Meaning, two people are to come together as man and woman. That is why Noah had to bring two of everything. As with people it is the same. We need to bond with the opposite sex. The thing is that we are making it so hard on ourselves. We want our mated to be someone that they are not, or a certain person, a perfect person. Instead of loving the person for who they are and know no one is perfect. The main thing I want to remind everyone. Stay who you are. Everyone changes, but not change to the point that you are a completely different person. That is one the biggest things that was said in a survey, people want the person they fell in love with. So be you, and remember, you don't know where or when but love is going to be coming around again. You just have to be willing to play the game. XO Barbara Jeanne