Changing Your Man?

A woman meets a guy and loves absolutely everything about him, well almost. Then as times passes and the relationship progresses she wants to mold her man. Change the little things that bother you about your man. You start telling you man, stop doing that! You need to change this! Why can't you do this or be more like that? It is good for communication but sometimes it is how you tell you man, how you say this things to him. It can't be like you are scolding your man as if he is bad. I see woman snatching her man’s phones out of his hands, saying who's that?  Not in an asking way but as a mother. You don't like that he may act so silly, not take things seriously. It seems to be fine when you two first met. Women do not try to change men; men resent you for trying to do this. If you continue, you take the fun out of him and the relationship. If you continue for a long period of time they start to really dislike you to the point they may not even want to be with you. The man might stay if you have children but intentionally it will be over. Then think back where you could have told him things in a gentle way. We are not here to control our men but to be their equal, their best friend. A man wants a best friend, someone to have fun with. Now if you can do this for him, many of those things that bother you, he will be willing to change. Women have to remember men are not our children and have to stop telling them he is acting as one. I am not putting it all on woman but this one is for the boys! XO Barbara Jeanne