Sick to Your Stomach of Your Relationship (On line & Looking Already?)

It is very hard to understand in a relationship that was once so loving has now turned into a cold, careless and bitter union. You two use to mesh so will, enjoy each other’s company and being together was something that was wanted. Now it seems when you talk you can see them squirm not wanting to have a conversation with you, as you do a bit of your own eye rolling when they are speaking to you. Their voice is annoying, their presence is irritating and this is a relationship gone wrong. Where and when did it start falling apart and do you want out or is it worth trying to fix the problem? This is something that needs to be addressed before you move on and start outside activities. It seems these days’ people begin to flirt on line; join dating sites and acting inappropriate. I know people who have a significant other and have conversations with the opposite sex which is normal. You can talk to someone without the intent to meet. You might be open and explain that you are not happy in the relationship you are in. Sometimes you need to vent, you may even think what if. Acting on it before you close the first chapter is not right. In this case you have two options, tell the person you are in that it is over and you want to move on or you want to see if you two can mend what you once had. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. It’s not only morally the right thing to do; you have to remember you loved this person at one point. It’s not fair that you move on and forget to tell your partner so they are able to do so as well. If you do want to try to save your relationship you need to stop going on these sites mingling trying to see what’s out there before you are single. Remember karma, it’s real and what goes around does come around. Don’t do to others you would not like done to you. Barbara Jeanne xo