Friday, September 22, 2023 at 11:25AM
Just like clockwork, after our post about this same topic, Selena has put out another TikTok about being single. No, it is not to promote Single Soon. Selena’s been making fun of the fact that she’s single for ages. From SNL, and all her viral videos on TikTok putting it out there. Oh, let’s not forget the viral video of her on the soccer field yelling it across the field. I’m glad she says she’s ok with it. And I’m glad she can poke fun at herself, but she seems to be going overboard just a bit.
I’m not exactly sure why she wants to be the butt of the joke, but it’s not funny to see Selena constantly making fun of herself. She admitted it’s been five years since she has dated anyone. That’s a long time. She has every right to date or not date, but the fact of the matter is that she hasn’t dated since. That is concerning. Yes, she’s dove into her work, and she’s become very successful. Good for our girl Sel. She deserves it. It is easy to find things out in my field. The word is Selena is not happy. Selena is not happy being alone and she wants to find love, and that is my concern.
She’s been waiting on Justin and that is not only unhealthy, but it’s not fair. You know that there has got to be contact between the two to give her hope to hang on. I know she’s not some crazy unstable person. They keep in contact, and he gives her hope, but that’s not right and she’s finally not ok with it. All the reasons that Justin needed to get married, legal issues, Visa, and a couple others are over, and you can say Justin’s stuck.
Justin has Hailey in one ear saying, “You can’t leave me, I’ll look like a fool, everyone will think our marriage was a charade”. But wasn’t it? No, isn’t it? He asked Selena to marry him, yet Hailey did everything possible to break them up. Well, Hailey and crazy team, and we’re supposed to feel bad for her? Justin asked Hailey to marry him two months after he asked Selena. Yet, she thought it was a good idea to say yes to a man that was hooked on drugs. This man was in no mind mentally to make any major decisions, especially being on heavy drugs. Yet they thought it was a good idea to get him to the courthouse to say “I Do”? This was a charade and every person involved knows.
Let’s not forget that Hailey promised Justin what he wanted the most: a baby immediately. Right after we say our “I do’s” we’re going to start trying. “Can’t wait to have a family” Is what she said. I spoke to an attorney in the industry and he said this is terms for an annulment, actually this could almost be criminal. To know someone is mentally ill, on drugs, and to make them sign any document is illegal.
But why does Justin have this loyalty towards Hailey even though she was always his friend with benefits? They have been pushing this friendship for so many years to the point she has almost become a sibling. A sibling in the sense of someone who you care for it, and someone who you protect. At this point, Selena isn’t getting it and says she’s done hearing it from him. Yet, she stays single and makes fun of the fact that she is. If she was truly okay, I’d say it’s absolutely her life. But if she’s not, which is what I’m hearing from a close source, then that’s sad. Some people tend to be very hard on her. By no means am I saying she was an angel, but she absolutely didn’t deserve what Hailey and all these people, including her close friends did to her.
When I saw her while she was filming in NY this year, we had a brief 5-7 minutes. She looked tired, defeated, and not so happy. Since then, she has slowly gotten herself together, and look at her now. She is shining, looking like the star she is. Her confidence is coming back, along with her spunk. Let’s pray she continues. And for goodness sake, if she is waiting for Justin, I think five years is plenty enough, I’m hoping the knight on the white horse I was talking about in the previous article does come and snatches her up, because she’s been waiting far too long, and she so deserves to be loved!