On Line Etiquette on Relationships

On line you really don't know who people are, just what you hear and you see. Many people are finding themselve talking to people not knowing their true status. They may start a friendly conversation that turns into flirtatious beginning to a relationship. Not knowing they have a significant other that may be in bed or just in the next  room. Maybe even sitting in the same room with different lap tops. Hell, they could both be doing the same things and not knowing. Anyway, point being, you need to check this out before you get into a heavy duty friendship that turns into chatting every night, then to texting and talking. That my friend is a relationship. Something you should not be doing. First off, you have choices. You may cut off the relatioship you are in and then knock yourself out, talking to everyone. Or stop talking to people acting like you are single, getting a head rush by flirting with someone you don't even know. It has happened, people leave their partner of so many years, to go to someone else. So let keep it straight, and be honest. Tell the person you are interested in that you are in a relationship and have no means of leaving. If you have the want to meet them and have a relatioship with them. Do the right thing, tell your partner. Don't leave your family and wife, a good healthy family, to make yourself happy. You don't know what you are getting yourself into. There is a thing called karma, and you don't want it to come bite you on your ass, Bad karma can be a bitch. xo barbara jeanne

Comments

[Buddy]

Hi B!

Ya know, very good advice. Good points. The internet is a very tricky thing - You meet some wonderful folks and then again... there's a lot of kooky folks out there that the internet dating thing seems to enable to climb to new heights (or depths) or "kookyness."

Hope you are enjoying the new year!

Buddy