Casual or Serious Relationship, How Do You Know

How do you know the person that you just met or started seeings intentions, for a serious or casual relationship. There are a few ways and signs they will show. This is going for both genders. Knowing this can save alot of heart ache and ill feelings towards the person. Sometimes the person doesn't say what they want because they are not sure, others are up front with what they are interested in. It's good to know. If the person you are interested in,is calling you daily, wanted to see you, that is a sign of commitment. Just texting is not quite good enough. I always have said, it takes two minutes to make a phone call. If the person talks about doing things in the future, good sign. Especially if a person is wanting to be touched, or is touching you, not pulling a way, is another good sign .Showing signs of affection is a great way of showing you care. I don't think I have to say which is the good gesture. That old saying, a picture says a thousand words, has a lot of truth to it. I recently was giving advice to a lady, and she showed me a piture. I saw a picture that reminded me of that couple standing by the church holding a pitch fork.The picture of the two of them showed no emotions. I told her to look at the picture and tell me what she saw? Her relationship shortly ended. So look at the pictures with the person whom you want to give your heart to, what do you see? If you are dating someone and things are going well, but for some reason the calls are coming less, with less texting and contact. This is a sign they are pulling away. They might of thought at one time they wanted more from you, or even a comitment, but they may of had a change of heart. In any case, the best way to know is to ask and if they are to much of a coward, or may not want to hurt your feelings to say. If this is the case then use you intuition and hopefully these tips will help. xo barbara jeanne
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