How to Get Him or Her...

Everyone I'm sure tells you their opinion on how to get the person YOU want. What to do, or waht not to do, but what is impotant that you do what you want. How far is too far? I have had a saying since I started giving advice, what you do today to express your love to someone, or to show someone how much you want them, won't matter after you are over them. All the crazy things you have done in the past to show a person how much you care, does it really matter today, no! Everything you have done stupid or silly has no meaning to your present life, unless it worked out and you are with them. So, do all those silly, stupid things to show that person how much you care. I remember I was dating my husband to be, but i didn't know it at this point. I met him and he said he was going to marry me. Being young and niave, I didn't show much appreciation to him, so he went  hooked up with another girl. He would still come around but, it wasn't the same. The girls boyfriend got kicked out of college now I really was doomed. She was after my man. That was not going to happen, no way, so what did I do? I got construction paper, glue and cotton balls and made him a one of a kind Easter card, with a big bunny on the front with a cotton for a tail. It said " missing you bad, I hope you hop back my way. He did, a year later we got married. Way to young, but that's another story. It doesn't matter what you do to show that person you want to be with how much you care. Even if you do look like a fool. I'm sure your friends are there to tell you that you are. Rememeber when they were acting like a fool with their crush. Anyway, do whatever you feel you want to do, dumb, silly or crazy. I said crazy not creepy. It will either go one way. They will appreciate how much you deeply care and the relationship will work out. Or it won't, but either way you can walk away knowing you gave it your all. It's their loss to pass up someone willing to do all this for a person but it is their loss if they don't see it. Someone will appreciate it. Now, if you take a moment and think back to all those over the top things you did to get a person to notice you or like you. If it didn't work, does it matter today? NO! Everything you have done is in the past and forgotten, it probally doesn't matter to you once you are over the person. So do what you feel you need to do to get the person of your dreams, but when you are done you done. Then let it go and chalk it up to a memory that will fades. Unless you got the person, then good for you. xo BARBARA JEANNE