Sex Or No Sex?

Years ago, it was just a no no to have sex, it made things easy. Boys or guys didn't even ask or try, well they might have tried. All the girl would have to say is No! Now a day it is not that simple, boys are pressuring girl’s way before they are ready. The thing of it girls want to have sex, everyone is doing it. As adults, guys want sex not a relationship and woman have sex because it does feel good, well most of the time. As adults we get horny. You like someone and you have sex, but what if it is two adults and it is mutual, with no strings attached. Can it be that cut an dry. If both parties are good with it, then great, I guess. Truly, a lot of women have sex because they think that is how they are going to get the guy. It doesn't seem to help the woman that wants to have a meaningful relationship though. After the deed is done the man will forever think. She did it with me so easily, she did it with everyone. YOU can swear this just never happen, but he will never believe you. Yeah he was just that great or special the first time you met him. Or maybe it was your first date. Either way, you are dead wrong. That saying that has been around for years is true. Why buy the milk when you can get the cow for free. Ok we are people not cows but the saying is true and dead on right. If you would hold out until you were in a meaningful relationship, not only it means something but it will be special. Your man will see you as pure and all men want their woman to be angelic like. They would at least like to think so. So, give it a try say no and wait. Maybe if we women did it as a whole we might get relationships back on the map. Think about it, as long as woman spread their legs man will not have to think I need to be in a relationship. We are given the men the power, an easy way out. Also, like I said which i hate to compare. Woman are like toys and when the man gets tired of the toy he tosses it aside for the new one but if he never conquers you tell he falls for you, you my dear will stay the precious new toy. To lead to a relationship that will last. XO BARBARA JEANNE