Believe in You, the Rest Will Follow

With a country you can speak your mind. The only time we seem to do this is when we are being forward. Want to get our point across, or being rude. Well for most. If you talk about grapic sex, nudity, or being up front and open, that is just too over the top for some people. I'm not sure I understand this when almoat every television show, on cable and prime time has that exact warning in it, before the show starts. We don't run out of the room or change the station, we watch. People also pick up their favorite magazines. For woman it shows us everything a woman should be, what to wear and to cook. The mens magazines shows them how they should be looking, how good a woman should look and well, thats about it, oh and a few articles. Most magazines have articles telling you how to be better in bed, how to get the man, woman of your choice..how how how. Im sure they have their methods, not really, working for a magazine, they tell you want you want to hear to sell. Just as...would you rather buy a book, that tells you "how to get the person of you dreams", or a reality book...Stop following someone that doesn't love you and here's how to find someone that does. Well, quite a long title but you get what I mean. I try to be honest and tell you like it is. Why would you want to waste your time, with someone that may not be into you. There are the signs, we all see them, yet we pour precious time, energy and sometimes money, trying to buy things, these people want. It doesn't make them want you or love you. So, I try to keep it real. To be honest, but caring. I believe people are the most precious things on this earth. We have to start treating ourselves this way. Next treat the people that do care about you the way you want and should be treated. The people that deserve it. By treating yourselve better, you will attract others to you. By treating others better, well that is just good karma. Everyone wants to know, the person that is so confidence and sure of themselves. I said sure not cocky. So don't beleive everything you read and be yourself. Learn to truley love who you are. Learn to trust your intuition. Remember women..."a womans intution is never wrong". I truly believe in this. Men, know as well, just don't have that complete knack. Never doubt what you think you know. The percentage is high that you are right. Believe in you and the rest will follow. Be a leader not a follower and as I said before, if you are not one to lead at least be yourself. It will make you stronger and that is a great start! xo Barbara Jeanne