Is It Too Late To Save Your Relationship

Many times when you are in a relationship you feel as if you want out. You almost dislike your mate. You cringe when they speak to you; touch you and especially not wanting to have sex. You both feel and know something has gone terribly wrong, often putting the blame on each other. Most of the time you feel as if you are sleeping with a stranger and you are so eager to get out and find intimacy which you have been lacking. You once loved each other enough to become a couple, move in together, even to get married. You both need to sit down and listen. Allow the other to talk and tell you how they feel and what troubles them. After you each have had your say it will give you a better idea if your relationship is worth saving. You also have to remember whoever you are with comes stormy times. It is how you can work it out. If both parties are willing to do this you have a good chance of saving the relationship. If only one is aboard then you might have to jump ship. You never know by doing so it might turn the other one back into the right direction. Nothing needs to be decided or accomplished in one day. It took a while to make this mess it will take some time to heal but if you are both willing, that's a start. X0 Barbara Jeanne
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