The Choice Is Yours (Use It In the Relationship While You Can)

People see couples that look all lovey dovey and say that's what I want. Infact everyone wants a loving relationship. But every relationship is different. You might have a man that dotes on you but has a low paying job. You may have a woman that lives for you but wants you to take care of them. This is just an example, and is not the goal of this article. I want to let everyone know that you have a choice. A choice on who you are with and how you are being treated. It is you from the very start that steers the wheel of the relationship. What your wants and needs are. You need to be verbal when you like something and when you don't. Things you don't like may start from the beginning or arise during the course of the relationship. If you see red flage in the beginning but rather put them on the back burner and continue seeing the person that is your choice. If someone changes during the course and you decide to stay this is your choice. Some choices my be harder than others. Time invested, children, income all place a roll on your decision of staying or leaving but you still have a choice. Never ever think you are stuck being miserable. You have to know with every relationship comes it's troubles but if you are so unhappy you would rather chose out then do so. Don't be afraid you can't make it. You always will. Where there is a will, there is a way. Just remember you do have a choice, it may be a hard one but when you do decide it will be yours. Lastly, you might be saying what if it is your partner that wants out and you don't have the choice. Well, something went wrong way before this situation that left you with no choice. Barbara Jeanne xo