No Potty Mouth, Especially In Your Relationship!

We are so used to using words that aren't exactly nice that we carry them into our relationship. I am one not to curse to begin with. I guess the reason why may be because when I was in eighth grade I thought it was cool to curse. So I would curse around the kids in my neighborhood. One day a boy came up to me and said you are so pretty, you shouldn't be talking like that. It made such an impact on me that lasted my life. So it is something I have practiced from then on. In my research something I found was that men aren't thrilled with it as well. Men aren’t so thrill with having their ladies cursing. In a relationship when you get into a heated argument right away words come out that aren’t appropriate. Maybe a guy will call his woman a bitch and the girl will throw one right back. Believe it or not this is verbal abuse and neither the man nor woman should be talking like this. It is very inappropriate.  Woman need to remember in relationships many times we actually lead. Men mirror us woman. So if you bring cursing into the relationship it is your fault. If from the get go it is something that is not acceptable by you it will be something that should not come into play. A man should never talk to you like this.  Now if this is what you have practiced in your relationship, and he does come out with a nasty word you then can say “I don’t speak to you in this manner and I don’t expect it from you”. One time in my life in one of my long term relationship my boyfriend said f*** you, and I replied back, yea you do but I don't cum. He never said it again. That was the one and only time I was ever told a curse word in any of my relationships. I'm not saying walk around like an angel. You drop something on your toe you might scream out f*** or something might happen that gets you steamed, that is just rolls out. But don't practice using it especially on the person you are in a relationship with. Lastly it looks and sounds a little trashy. Just saying!  Barbara Jeanne xo