Think Before You Lose a Good Thing

If you are in a relationship that is failing and you know it. Let today be the first day on its way back to improving it, to a healthy happy relationship. How? Let go of all the negativity that you have been holding onto. Next, you need to take time to relflect on some of the good times you two had. Then go to your partner and talk. Tell them, things have not being going in a positive direction and before we go down further closer to breaking up, it is important to me that we try our best to mend and repair our relationship. Saying these words will let your partner know how much you do care and hopefully will take time to reflect on the good times as well. Do you really want to let go of what you have and move on. Is your relationship worth saving. Every relationship is worth saving, especially if you have children, or married. If you are married, that is reason enough. Unless their is abuse or someone has been unfaithful, most other things should be easier to over come, with time and love.  Relationships that two people are compatible and click on the level to esculate are rare. If you do find this kind of relationship, then chances are you won't find another as easy. It is easy to find someone to lust over. Maybe to crush over for a period of time but that fades. There are very few that will make it to the point of trying the always and forever. So keep that in mind next time you want to give up and bail. To hear woman nag and for men to pretend you don't hear and walk away. Either one is annoying and bugs the s*** out of me when I hear people doing this. Say something once, then it is you choice what you want to do next. Men you are just as annoying if you would do it, woman wouldn't have to nag. It becomes a chain reaction. So to both genders stop it and take time to communicate with kind words, it will get you alot further. No one wants to be told what to do and no one wants to be ignored. Start thinking your relationship is worth saving, and start doing things to improve it. If you can't remember what that might be. Act as you did when you first met. You may not be able to pretend you don't know each other, but if you have that much appreciation for each other as you do when you first met. It is a good start back to recoving what you had...a good thing... a good relationship! If you don't at least try, there will alwasys be that doubt, when you go out and realize what's out there. It will leave you thinking twice. Turn around before it is too late...XO Barbara Jeanne