You Meet Someone You Like, They Disappear (Only to Come Back Around)

You meet someone and it either goes well or not, but for some reason, it doesn’t work out and you stop hearing from the person. Time goes by weeks, months hopefully not years and you hear from this person again. Throughout the years I have noticed this, but it even happened to me and it made me think. I didn't even know who the person was and frankly I don't think the caller knew too much about me; in fact I think it had to be more than a year that had passed. So, why do people come back out of the blue, with the " hey what's up, how you doing", truthfully I think people desperately don't want to be alone. They may think of memories with a person that may draw them back. Sometimes there wasn't much to hold on to but whoever they were with isn't working at the moment so why not give someone out of the blue a phone call, even if you don't really know them. I have to say this makes me laugh a bit. They person on the phone asked me if I was in a relationship and I had told them at the time I was engaged for a year. My mother even said she'd take a date with him, whoever the guy was had a good sense of humor and laughed. So guys may need a fill in, or maybe have nobody so are willing to give a girl a second chance. But I don't think we met is the funny part. Anyway, everyone is worth more than just being a fill in. Many times I feel guys are seeing someone but see another girl that may intrigue them and introduce themselves.  Although they seem to forget to say “I’m in a relationship but if we don't work out could I give you a call”. You seldom hear that. There is the situation where one of the two that made you two a couple that may have been unsure at the time of what they wanted and backed away. They may now find the timing is right and come back hoping maybe both people are ready. Other than that I feel if it didn't work out the first time, it is wise to say, there was a reason. Let it go. If you can't and for some reason have the need to try again, do so. Don't continue to try and try again, like a broken record. Don't waste time and energy on yesterday’s relationship because there is no one at the moment. Leave yourself open for the right person. It will give you a better opportunity to meet the right person! Barbara Jeanne xo