Love the One Your With

You are in one room, your mates is in another. When the two of you first got together, the bed or the couch was the place you saw mosT. Hanging out having fun, you thought you would never get enough of each other. Now you do what you do, they do what they do, and when do you have time together? When you do, are you laughing, touching, that carefee happy couple you always were, or do you careless where you patner is or what they are doing. Now come on that is not how you want to live. Like strangers, only bonding when a special moment comes and that is short lived. To find out that one of you are on line chatting a way and the other one is dreaming what it would like to be happy and in love. So you have two choices, call it quits and say goodbye and move on, if you think it is that easy. Apparently now a days it does seems like it is. That was in another article. Moving forward... or working it out with the person you are with. Aren't you tired of having no fun. Aren't you tired of going to bed and turning the other way as if you were in bed alone. Don't you want your friend and lover back. This is the best advice I can give all those people thinking of looking over the fence to see what is on the other side. Ready...a whole lot of nothing, nada. There is no grass, nothing but a vacant lot. So turn around go back through the yard in the door and realize, a relationship is work. What you need to work on, is not your comuter chatting skills, but your skills on how to treat the one that sleeps in your bed with you every night. I don't have to tell you how, if you knew how to treat them to get them. You know how to treat them to keep them..and it goes both ways! XO Barbara Jeanne