What to do If You Want Out

So you are miserable and sad and you don't know what to do you have tried everything to get across to your partner to try and work things out. It may get good for a few weeks or days but then it tends to go back to what is was, bad. You feel like you are about to lose it. All you can think about is how unhappy you are. You try over and over to get through to this person you once had such high hopes with, big dreams, but all you seem to get back is no emotion, a sense of coldness. What do you do, if you feel doomed like there is no way out? First off know that you can get out and this situation is not going to last forever. You may need time and a plan, but you need to get started. How do you do this first off, you need money so see how to get funds. If you have children, you can try through the state and find a job preferable a job that you like that will bring in decent funds. You can't be too picky at first, remember the most important thing right now is to get out. You always will have time to work out the rest. Next find a place where you can go. Either a relative, or save up and rent a place, even if it may be small. Remember this is just the beginning of what will be your new and improved happy life. It may take a bit of time but you will achieve it. Last cut ties with the ex. If you have children, you will have to deal with the ex, but make it minimal. Remember you only have one life, there are no do over's, so live like you got one shot, because basically you do. xo Barbara Jeanne