What Works for You as a Couple is What Is Important!

So many people feel that they have to follow the norm of what is expected for a couple. I'm actually very old fashion, but I have my wild child side and that is what I bring to a relationship. I believe that dinner should be on the table for your man, lunch made, clothes ready. I know it may sound sickening but that is how I was raised, but then I have the other side of me that believes a relationship you need to have kick ass fun. You need a balance to a relationship to be healthy. If you want to have tv dinners and go out every night but make it to work and it works for you, go for it. If you two as a couple want to get married, or don't it is your business. If you want children or where you want to live is your choice. As long as the two of you are happy and you are not hurting anyone, then it is your perrogative. You don't need to keep up with the Jone's to say you are successful as a couple. You need to be happy and as long as it works for you then roll with it. If two people join together and enjoy each other that they are each others best friend, love to spend time together then you got a good thing. So be you as a person, be you as a couple and if your happy, you are doing something right. Don't listen to what anyone says but who you say I love to each day and sleep with each night. Enjoy your life and your partner, couples would  kill to have a happy love filled relationship. XO Barbara Jeanne