When Your Crush Has Changed & You Don't Know What's Going On (Here's help)

     So you meet someone on line or in person and you feel as if your world is so much brighter, a whole lot happier and your mornings, well it seems as the sun is shining even if it’s pouring rain. This person that you have met and have been talking to seems to be putting a smile on your face ear to ear. It is such a great feeling and delight. Especially these days it seems harder than ever to meet someone that is available and a good catch. All the good ones seem to be taken, like that old saying says. As days pass the calls are coming in, the texts are plentiful. You are on your way to having the beginning of a beautiful romance or so you think. When all of a sudden without notice something seems to change. The calls become a lot less. They hardly call and they seldom answer. It’s almost a given that you know they won’t answer. When you text it takes them awhile to get back to you and when they do, there isn’t an explanation it’s no big deal. The texts are short and a bit cold. So what may have went wrong. It can be a few different things. As the got to know you there was something about you that they didn’t like and they are pulling away to sort if they like you or not. It could also be they want to keep you around in case they don’t find anyone better. It’s not fair I agree but many people hang in there hoping you are the one they choose. You should never agree to be plan b. So you wonder why you hear from them after a week or so when there has been no contact. If you already have had sex you may be getting a call or text for a booty call, never go. You will always be a booty call. They also just might not want or be ready for a relationship. If you do really like this person and you want to know the deal, go over if invited but instead of having sex… talk. Ask what is going on and ask for honesty. You might not get it but then again you might. You can give it a few weeks but after this back up. Don’t waste your precious time on a no go. Open up your mind to those that are ready for a relationship. And that they are not going to run as you two get closer. They will simply stand still and allow you to love them and they will love you. That is what should put a big smile on your face and in your heart. When you are in a situation that you are asking everyone what everything your crush is doing means, just know something is wrong. Barbara Jeanne xo