The Do's & Don't To Finding Someone That Is A Keeper

I have literally been fascinated with love since I was in high school. Why would two people like one another? I would see so many girls crying back then from broking hearts and that seems to continue into adult hood. Here are a few things for both genders that may help eliminate some heart ache and may help in getting the person you want a little bit easier. First off this one I have been saying since college only because I know from first hand. I got married in college and I asked my then to be husband, why me? He answered “I knew it the moment I saw you, I had a teacher in grammar school named Barbara and I knew from that moment I wanted to marry a Barbara and here I was. Men usually know within the first few minutes of seeing the woman if they want something more. Many times men may feel this is the woman I want to marry. This happens more so for men than women. Women may like what they see but they need to know there is a bit more, but once a woman is hooked she falls and hard. There are a few mistakes that we make when two people meet and are attracted to each other, they have sex. If we could control our emotions to not end up in bed we have a better chance to get a bit further. First off your vagina is one of the most precious gift you can give, why would you give it to someone without knowing who they are and if they even want you more than a night or two. Women you give yourself to a man and if you are to like them and then you find they are not interested you may get you feelings hurt. You may kick yourself if you feel he was someone you were really into to. You have already given yourself to them and they are a goner it leaves you feeling absolutely crappy but learn from it. Kissing is a definite yes. Kiss a way. I have had some of my best kissing sessions on a first date. It leaves the man wanting more. I remember I was on a first date one time and a couple said to us “you two look like such a cute couple, so in love” I laughed and said I just met him tonight. Not that you should go around sucking face, I was a bit younger but you need to make to have the man want to see you, to come back for more. Personality has so much to do with a second date. Good conversation and fun are big assets to continue to dating a person, then getting to know your morals and what you are about. Compatibility of back grounds process through a man’s brain. A man can have the best time on a date, say they are ready to jump in with two feet but then when they go home their brain goes into a process mode and see if your two lives will mesh. Another thing happens is a man goes back into his own comfort zone and you might not hear from them even if they did have a great time. Then you will hear from them when they are ready to see you. That is totally up to you ladies if you want that relationship, you see me now but I’ll disappear until I’m ready to see you again. Oh but don’t worry they will keep you there by sending those texts that puts a smile on your face till the next few days goes by and you don’t hear from them. Your hearts slowly aches until they send you that text, hey you want to get together and pitter patter goes your heart. What do I think about this, its bull shit and I would not accept it. Either you’re in or out, what you will be in for if you are to except this type of man is a in and out relationship, your heart on a roller coaster ride and it truly sucks. Anyone in this situation, man or woman this to me is a no go and something I would bow out quickly from this situation and tell yourself you are way too precious then anything less than the real thing, which is true love. Barbara Jeanne xo