Freebird (Let Them Go)

Love is difficult when it should be so easy. You may have fallen for one of those people that are not ready, or do not want to be loved. May be because they have been hurt and are afraid to open up and love again. There are those that just want to fly solo. They may be loners or just like to do it alone. You try to break a wall, only to find another. You try every angle. Giving them room, hoping they will miss you. The truth of the matter is they won't miss you enough to come back to you, to make a difference. Not enough to open up and let you in. Single people developed selfishness and that is not how life was meant to be. A relationship is a friendship. If you do not have a friendship your relationship will end. Both people need to bring something to the table. If it is only one sided, it will not work. So you go on trying, for this person that is broken. There are some people that that will not open up their heart and change. Don't go after someone that is broken and cannot give back. A person although does not want to be in a relationship, will still take. So you need to be careful to who you give you heart to. You don't want to give you heart, only for them to hold it for a moment, give it back and before you can catch it, it falls and you are heart broken. You have to realize that there are some people that are not able to give, unable of to love. If this is the case, you need to reflect, why you are attracted to someone that does not love you back. Why does it make you try harder, to go after a person that gives so little to nothing? You need to let those people fly solo. Hope they love again. In the back of your head, you will hope it is you. That this person never, ever will find anyone that loves them as much as you did. This is only normal. These people need to find themselves. Be alone, fly solo. As for you "Let It Go" and find someone to fly with you. Xo Barbara Jeanne