On Line Chatting is Turning Into On Line Dating..

So many people are talking on sites, starting out as friends with different people and turning into more.  These people online is talking with you as well as chatting with several others having mini relationships with each. The problem is that usually one of you is thinking that their relationship is more serious than the other. That once whatever the other person is using for an excuse lifts the relationship will then start. The thing is that if a person really wants to meet, especially after a period of getting to know one another. They would make it happen. What would be the cutoff point to the chatting, where it should become face to face. I believe that, the chatting should be very short lived only because, why waste time talking with someone. To only meet them and realize you have wasted your time because there is not attraction. The person on the other end of the line could be anybody. You are thinking they are someone totally different then who they say they really are. Hoping that you like the person you have been talking to and are attracted to on line who you know, not who you meet. People as well are on line in many different types of relationships, not in a serious relationship, but dating someone they met on line, but continue to want to look. So they have a list of people and they are choosing who they might want to be with. We are people not things on a shelf to be decided if we are liked enough to be the one. Ask questions you want to know and be honest to what your intentions are. This goes both ways. Barbara Jeanne xo