Your Partner Should Make You Feel Perfect!

Two people meet and if they click, they try to be everything they think the one they dig likes. You want to be there everything, especially in the beginning. You want to be funny, happy, silly, pretty, handsome, kind, generous and everything in-between. The big problem is that if you aren't yourself eventually you have to be and your true colors have to come out. Now if the two of you still like what you see then you move on and become an official couple. Things are great but somewhere down the road they change. We can't say when it is going to happen but somehow for some reason it does. It could be one just loses those extreme feeling that made you a great couple at one time or the way you two treat one another. Either way we have to learn that we should be only praising our partners. We should be lifting them up to higher levels, making them feel, handsome, beautiful not degrading them to lose their self-esteem. You don’t want to feel as if you are not pretty or not enough man. We have to learn to not see our partners as the enemy or someone you try to spend as little amount of time with them and learn to be each other best friend. The person you can't wait to see. To hold and touch and to be excited to hang out with. How do we achieve such a goal? Don't judge the person you are supposed to love with all your heart. If you make them feel special like a princess or queen, they should be happy to treat you nothing less than their prince or king. xo Barbara Jeanne