Relationships Takes Work, People You know This Going Into It?

Would you fuss over the person you are with six months from now? Would you wait for their call, knowing it would come right on time. Would you still do it six months from now? Would you make it a point to keep your sweetheart happy by doing all those little things that puts a smile on their face? Would you do it six months from now? Would you make sure you honey, your baby, felt your love and knew how much you loved them by you actions? Would you do these six months from now, a year from now, could you do this forever? Most peoples answer is they don't, they actually say...you can't keep doing all that, that's stuff you do in the beginning. In the beginning when you are trying to conquer the person you are desperately seeking. I am speaking both to men and women. You sure do everything to get what you want, but once you think or know you got that persons love locked down, men you get lazy and women you start to bitch. Men, I have to say you get the ball rolling by getting lazy, then women you jump in and start nagging. The whole relationship snowballs out of hand until both of you are miserable and want out. Why not try to do all those special things you do in the beginning. Men, like opening the door, telling your woman how nice she looks. Doing those entire little things she likes. I have a good feeling men in return you pretty little lady will do so much more for you without the nagging. So why can't you do all those things that you did when you met? Why after a period of time we start slacking? Why can’t we make it for six month, a year, or forever? You could if you wanted and if you did; your relationship has a better chance of lasting forever.  Remember a relationship needs balance, two people can't always feel the same emotions at the same time, but when one is feeling it more the others got to step it up, because when you are feeling it more you wouldn't want the rejection. To keep it easy get in the habit of doing those things to keep your partner happy and hopefully it will snowball in the positive direction.  XO Barbara Jeanne