If You Think I'm Sexy

If you think I'm sexy and you want my body, words of a number one song from one of our old timers Rod Stewart. I'm too sexy for my shirt, so sexy it hurts, said Right Said Fred. We also have an oldie but goodie Robert Palmer's, Simply Irresistible, stating how fine and sexy a woman is. The nineties kept the sexy songs going right though the 2000's and here we are up to March 2011, Burlesque, with one of a kind, Cher and Christina Aguilera, were Cher didn't think Christina's character in the movie had the right sex appeal to lure the crowd in. In the movie she had to prove herself, which she did indeed. So all over, and for decades we are saying that it is a good thing to be sexy, desirable and wanted. Yet, it is a hush hush subject or topic when it comes to women and men and their weight, and taking care of themselves. The word some people are trying to put out, which it is okay to be heavy and not take care of themselves. Oprah even after a million attempts now says F it, she has enough money, and she doesn't care. So she puts it out there that everyone should accept the person the way they are. I totally agree to an extent. First off, I heard a comedian recently said that Oprah has enough money to pay someone just to stand there and smack the food out of her hand. I am not here to say anyone is or should be perfect, but you should at least try to keep fit and take care of yourself. You will be happier, and you partner will be happier. I see so many wives saying she doesn't care and I also hear how them say, their husbands don't touch them how they want to be touched. Everyone wants to hear what they want to hear not what they need to hear. Staying fit is such an important part of a relationship. Being in shape gives you not only a healthy body but a healthier and happier mind. It also pleases your partner, you want to touch and be touched, you also feel more at ease and comfortable being touched, which in turn makes for a better intimate experience. It something people need to realize and to learn to accept the reality. Instead of making excuses, so you have the easy way out by doing nothing and say I like who I am, and people should accept me. Then please people stop saying in the dressing rooms, I can’t fit into anything. I need to lose weight. You weren’t born that way. Don’t put yourself in a category, you make who you are. It is not who you are, it is what you make of yourself. I know I’m being tough but it’s with love. The two top reasons people fall out of love is if they lose attraction for their mate and if their mate is nasty to them. You can listen, or pay attention to your partners when you are in public. If they are looking like there is something better, and you are feeling this. Chances are you are right.  Xo Barbara Jeanne