Their Hot & Their Cold? (The 411 of what do on both sides)

I’m not sure what is going on between two people that are trying to have a relationship and they seem to be running into road blocks. These are road blocks that are coming from within. Not always problems that they are going on between you the person you are trying to date. It’s as if they are actually one of the two is hot and cold. Just as that Katy Perry song goes, it rings with such truth. The lyrics say “you’re in and you’re out, you’re up and you’re down. You don’t know what you what. Mean time you are crushing and hurting the person that probably really likes you. They may be even falling for you. And here you are dragging them though your own struggles of maybe commitment issues or you may not be sure this is the right one for you. Maybe you might not want to put all your eggs in one basket and leave you options open. If you are in the field for shopping and not ready to settle down with one person, don’t start. However the union might last for it will not work at this point because two people have to be on the same page for commitment for one. Like each other enough to give it an honest chance, two and three you can’t be selfish. If you don’t really want a person but don’t want to lose them that is horrible, you are keeping this person for plan B. Which nobody deserves this and it’s no way to start a good healthy relationship. And plan B usually very rarely turns into plan A. So if you aren’t ready neither gender don’t to the flirt and dip. That means you keep them hanging on enough to want you and keep them right where you want them by your side. The only nasty thing about this is, is that you are being nasty and not a nice person. Si if you are not ready let go until you are and when you are ready your good karma will bring you a healthy relationship and it’s what you deserve because you did the right thing. (Next article. When you are in this position but you really like the person but you are truly confused, what to do.) Barbara Jeanne xo