How To Make Internet Dating Successful!

If you chose to do online dating, here are some tips to having a more successful chance of meeting the right person and not be just a waste of time. I myself took a whirl of online dating while doing a lot of research at the same time. I have to say I did well and met some really nice men. I also know people who have been on for years and are unsuccessful. Why? It may be because they are looking for something that doesn’t exist or their expectations are too high. People are not perfect. You might get a great looking person with a ton of baggage. We all have a bit, but if it is so heavy that it is holding the person you are in pursuit, down, it’s time to let them go. It will be very hard to have a healthy relationship with someone holding on to their past. You also have to check your own baggage as well to make sure you are able to move forward. Once you have done this, check your profile. The pictures you put up are very important. You want to smile. A smile can say a thousand words. Are the pictures inviting, warm but not to advanced. Everyone goes for the hot pictures, but you got to see if they are recent. Pictures can be false so if you begin to talk to someone try to get a new shot sent to you phone. That is the good thing today almost all phones has cameras. Now you want to see who the person is behind the picture. Ask questions about them, what they like. Try to get detail answers if you are really interested in getting to know them. The number one complaint that I got was that the person they were talking to and met did not look like the picture they had seen. So be honest. I know it may be hard to be completely honest with your whole life but it is important with the essentials. That means, if you have children, if you are divorced but most of all if you are still married. It is only fair to let the person know so they can enter the relationship knowing the truth. Next, don’t wait too long to meet. If you keep getting the run around, as I said before “let it go”. Something isn’t right if they keep making excuses to why they can’t meet. If it turns sexually right away, I’d slow it down until you meet. This one is no ifs and or butts, do not have sex on your first date. I am saying this more to women. It does not give a good impression first off and why buy the cow, when there are so many cows to choose from. I do not mean to disrespect. Yes you are ladies, so please act like it. Men, you are not off the hook you too can say no, because when you act like you like a women and bang her and bail, it hurts. You have to be on the same page for your relations with this person to work. So be you, be honest and have fun. Men are looking for a woman that looks nice, has a good heart & is fun. Women are looking for a nice guy, to make them feel special. They also like you to take a moment to say hi, and when you are together make them laugh. Don’t over think what if. If you find someone you really like, don’t keep thinking your will find something greener because you won’t. It is hard to connect. When you do find that special someone try and hold on and see where it goes. You never know they might be the person you have been searching for. Last but not least if you are married, in a relationship or just browsing for fun…STOP!  Give the people who are truly looking for love a chance. Barbara Jeanne xo