Hailey is the Wife, but Selena Will Always be First Choice

      Something we see a lot online is, "He married Hailey, so obviously he loves her." Keep in mind how things got to where they are today. Hailey used lies, manipulation, friends, and spirituality to get her ring. No. Selena's ring. Selena was always the one. Justin never held Hailey in the same regard as he did Selena. Selena was a woman he loved while Hailey was more of a friend with benefits. This was reflected in the way he treated them. What do I mean? Despite being a compulsive cheater, Justin was always known for being a sweet and romantic boyfriend. Before the internet was wiped you could easily find instances of Justin taking the lead and protecting Selena. One that stuck out to me most is an instance of Justin and Selena on vacation. They were in an airport and were literally mobbed. There were at least two bodyguards with them, but Justin took his girl’s hand and led her through the crowd. By the time he got to the other side, he realized that he and Selena had been separated. Instead of letting his guards handle it, he went back into the crowd to find Selena and bring her out safely. He easily stepped into protector mode for her, but was seen leaving Hailey to fend for herself multiple times. Remember the skateboarding incident?

I don’t doubt that Justin has raised his voice to Selena in private, but we never saw him disrespect her publicly. Justin screamed at Hailey at the top of his lungs over an arcade game of all things. We even saw him “playfully” karate chop Hailey on her head and smack her behind so hard that she visibly reacted. I have my personal thoughts on play-fighting, but Selena and Justin were constantly followed when they were together. In all the years, we never saw any footage of him pretending to strike her. What we did get was constant contact. They tightly held hands, kissed, and embraced in public without a care in the world. The big smiles and giggles told us they were just happy to be together. They kept a high level of intimacy throughout the years despite the relationship being so tumultuous. The kissy-kissy phase with his wife didn’t seem to last even two years. When people see them together they joke that they look like siblings, mother and son, or worse, strangers. Fans have to go as far back as the pandemic to see Justin affectionate toward Hailey because that was the time he was actively trying to love her the way a wife should be.

Justin spent Thanksgiving with Selena in Texas in 2010. She took him to Mexico to meet her family there too. Selena went to Canada to meet Justin’s family in 2011. They spent Valentine’s Day 2012 at Disneyland with Justin’s family. Justin’s family adored Selena. She had a great relationship with them and Justin’s mother publicly praised Selena multiple times. Hailey did not go home to meet Justin’s family until AFTER they were already married. Did he really love both? Justin was not shy about telling the world how he felt about Selena. Music, television, and radio; he was not afraid to be open about it whether they were in a relationship or not. He spoke to Billy Bush on Access Hollywood on November 3, 2015. We saw him get visibly emotional as he told Billy that he still loved Selena and wasn’t fully over their break-up. He shared that he wrote a song about how maybe they would have worked out better had they met 5 years later. This is bold, even for Justin. Weeks later, Justin dropped Hailey two days before her birthday to meet Selena at the Beverly Hills Montage where he serenaded her and slow-danced in a room full of people. Hailey got her serenade at the same hotel in January 2019. Being the suave man that he is, Justin sang Hailey “Sexual Healing” by Marvin Gaye.

Justin was a romantic guy. He would rent out a stadium for a romantic movie night like it was nothing. He bought out an entire flower shop for Selena on Valentine’s Day 2011. He took Selena back to the Montage for Valentine’s Day 2018 for a romantic dinner. It’s probably the sweetest video I have seen of them. They played thumb wars at the table, and it looked like Justin accidentally hurt Selena’s hand. After that Justin grabbed her hand and couldn’t stop kissing it. It seemed like a very tender date. If he knew he would be marrying another woman months later, I am not so sure he would be acting that way. Say what you want but have never seen Justin treat Hailey with a meaningful level of warmth and tenderness. Hailey is his wife. It would be PR gold for him to give some sweeping romantic gesture to the woman he walked down the aisle with, but I guess he can’t be bothered.

Yes, Hailey got an engagement ring from Justin in 2018, but she was still so fixated on his relationship with Selena that in 2020 she got a finger tattoo emulating a custom-made promise ring her husband gave Selena in 2012! Even Hailey knows her ring is not enough. That big rock that she displays proudly on her fingers and flashes it as much as she can, doesn't make Justin love her any more. Nor does that ring seem to symbolize anything  more than a beautiful piece of jewelry. 

In Justin’s Seasons documentary we see him a lot in the recording studio. At one point, he tells Hailey that she makes him “nervous” and asks her to leave to get ready for a dinner date. Once she left, he revealed that he hadn’t made any plans and needed to make a reservation quickly. I heard that Justin needed Hailey gone so he could work on songs that were meant for Selena. These songs would upset Hailey and they would argue about it. Justin and Selena worked on music together. They wrote songs and recorded together. She was even welcomed warmly when he was working on his own music. Selena was his muse, and he enjoyed her presence even when focused on work. The songs written for Selena are deep and emotive love songs while the ones for Hailey are lighter, shallower, and more fun. The perfect reflection of the respective relationships. That wasn’t the only time Hailey was pushed aside. In 2016, Justin snubbed Hailey for a very passionate and loud night with Selena in a hotel room. The same year, after a night of partying and sex, Justin wanted Hailey out of his hair. So, he gave her his credit card and told her to go shopping while he stayed back. Hailey was so excited to have access to his money that she spent $50,000 in just a few hours. If she needed money, he was generous enough to give her $10-20,000 at a time, but he still couldn’t stand her long enough to be her “official” boyfriend for more than a month. Their relationship consisted of sex, money, and just a good time, but it lacked emotional intimacy. Justin was not able to get the emotional fulfillment he got with Selena elsewhere which is why he always returned to her. After Justin broke up with Hailey, he didn’t reunite with her until their engagement. He always preferred to be with Selena or other official girlfriends but kept Hailey on the side for sex.

On their wedding day, Justin was blowing up Selena’s phone. He told her that he made a mistake and that if she would take him back, he would leave Hailey. Selena knew the damage had been done. Everything was so public; that she would look like a fool for taking him back after that. She refused to take him back, but she was crushed. After the wedding, she had a mental breakdown and fell back into partying to cope, but I am happy to say that she is 100% clean today. Just months into the marriage, Justin gifted Selena a $600,000 car. No, it was not part of a “bet”. It was a declaration of love.

Selena was also known to participate in Justin’s hobbies. They loved to fish together, and she would watch from the sidelines as he played sports, especially hockey. The “Anyone” music video apparently reminded a lot of fans of this. We have seen a staged picture of the Biebers fishing together recently, but at this point in his life, it seems like Justin has abandoned his hobbies. Justin seems to have lost most of the joy and passion in his life. He barely works and is more distant from his siblings whom he loves. I hope that he can get his spark back soon and enjoy life more like before. 

So how could Hailey of became Justin's first choice? By having a baby. This is something that she never intended to do. She still has no plans to be the mother of Justin Bieber’s children. Even if she did have a baby, Justin would be choosing his child, not the mother. Let's clear up, at one point Justin decided "I'm going to truly give this a shot. Give it my all." But as you see in a previous post, Justin wanted a baby. Hailey didn't want to fuck up her body, and if she was ever, she most likely will use a surrogate, and mark my words come up with some kind of cockamamie story of why she can't carry the baby. Although that is her own business.

The bottom line is that these two are having so much trouble because they were never meant to be. You just don't ask a girl to marry you and give her a ring, which she actually wears, but once you two have a bump in the road you go off and ask another girl to marry you. Especially after just leaving a pretty intense near decade-long relationship with that other girl. No matter what Hailey was the second choice. He was not only mad at Selena, he was coaxed into this union with Hailey by a bunch of people who he trusted while he was mentally, physically and emotionally unhealthy. The bottom line people get very angry when someone says something just isn't right between Justin and Hailey's marriage. As if it's not noticeable. We would have left them alone if we thought things were right. But the red flags keep coming. And getting bigger. So I do research diligently to make sure it's accurate and then I leave it up to whoever reads my material that my administrator and I work so very hard to get the truth. Because honestly, I am so tired of seeing a bunch of nonsense, a bunch of lies, and a bunch of publications, influencers and media saying what they want to say just to get more views and more followers. There's no integrity by doing that.

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