Hailey is the Wife, but Selena Will Always be First Choice...I wasn't Finished

So, let’s talk about how the ring ended up hopping from Selena’s hand to Hailey’s. Justin and Selena were having problems. None of her friends or family accepted the engagement. Selena had gotten clean, but Justin was still using. She was willing to work with him and help him get better, but the relationship that he had with her loved ones was so fractured that they all told her to cut her losses and move on. Selena fought for the relationship and was willing to choose Justin over her family. However, she and her mother got into a huge argument which led Selena’s mother to be admitted into the hospital with a panic attack. This caused Selena to end the engagement. There were many issues that needed to be worked out before they could take the next step. On top of this, Selena became weary of Hillsong Church. She saw how they were using her and Justin for publicity and how they were very interested in getting large donations from them after they married. I’m not talking about the standard 10% tithe. Selena basically told them that they would not be getting her money, and they wouldn’t be touching Justin’s either. Keep in mind Justin was already paying for a lot of things for the church officials. He was paying for security and travel. They were flying on his jet. He would pay for gifts and anything they asked for. I want to make it clear that Justin is very generous with his money and he’s a giving person. He is also very trusting and that makes him easier to take advantage of if you know his vulnerabilities. Selena was a protector for him. She watched his back letting him know when he couldn’t trust someone. Regardless, that doesn’t mean he always listened. Selena told him that he was being used, but Justin trusted his pastors. When the church saw that Selena would be keeping them from getting the money they wanted, they switched game plans. Now, they wanted Hailey.

Hailey wanted to marry Justin and was willing to do whatever it took. She committed to getting the church the money they wanted once she became Justin’s wife. They encouraged Hailey to contact Justin even though they hadn’t spoken in a year. All the while church leaders were providing Selena and Justin‘s pre-marriage counseling. Hailey jumped at the opportunity. She first contacted Justin‘s friend who confirmed that he and Selena were having some issues. They were not on the same page. Hailey reached out to Justin as a "friend." She offered a shoulder to cry on and support during his difficulties with Selena. Hailey knew all the right things to say to make it seem like she and Justin had a lot in common. As far as Justin knew, he and Hailey had similar values and wanted the same lifestyle, but he was getting played. Selena discovered that Justin had been speaking to Hailey behind her back and ended the relationship. She was no longer willing to accept the things she had in the past. This pissed Justin off. He was angry at Selena for ending things and, in his opinion, choosing her friends and family over him. This breakup pushed him right into the arms of Hailey Baldwin. Justin was heartbroken, vulnerable, and addicted. He was in the perfect position to be talked into a marriage with Hailey. He was told how good Hailey was for him. She would keep him grounded and focused. She would get him healthy. She would give him the family and the baby that he wanted so badly. At that point, he believed becoming a father would give him a reason to keep living. He needed citizenship, yes, but he got married because he wanted a happy family. Family and stability were his motivations. So, he took a leap of faith and got married to Hailey. They decided to go to the courthouse because Hailey said something along the lines of “If you marry me today, we will try for a baby tomorrow.” This still didn’t change Justin‘s desire for Selena. He called her on the day he got married at the courthouse and said he made a mistake. He told Selena that he would leave Hailey if she took him back, but the damage was done. Selena’s rejection did not deter Justin. He called her every day faithfully for the first year of marriage. All his calls went unanswered. Selena blocked him, but all Justin had to do was change his number. Selena changed her number too, but it did little to stop Justin from getting a hold of her. In 2019, Selena finally decided to answer the phone. After that, they began speaking again. This entire time Justin had been cheating on his wife with women who looked like Selena. He had his phone taken away because he was talking to other women, but he didn’t care. He just used Hailey’s phone instead. Eventually, Hailey got tired of this and gave him a phone with a tracker and childproof settings. This did not keep Justin from doing what he wanted. if he had to get a burner phone he did it.

Once Justin and Selena started talking again they became close quickly. Once the pandemic hit they were talking all the time because everyone was at home unable to work. Justin and Selena were in a good place at this time. So, yes, Justin was simultaneously trying to maintain a relationship with Selena and build a happy marriage with Hailey at the same time all while juggling other women on the side. Do you understand where Hailey's resentment for Justin and Selena comes from now? Keep in mind 2020 was the year that Justin got both of his neck tattoos. The first one being a bird and the word forever which he debuted to the world via Instagram on Selena’s birthday in the year 2020. The second neck tattoo is a rose, which he got in September. Selena has publicly shared that the rose is her favorite flower. In fact, one of her best friends nicknamed her “Rosebud”. It seems just about every year Selena’s birthday cake features roses in the decoration. These tattoos, being on Justin’s neck, are difficult to hide. It as if he doesn’t want to hide the love that he feels for Selena. Although he may lie to the public, his neck tells the truth.

Eventually, Selena’s PR team found out that she was in close contact with Justin. Her therapist told her that it wasn’t healthy, and her PR team told her she was playing with fire. Selena was forced to block Justin on everything. Justin was unable to get a hold of her this time. His old tricks didn’t work. So, he was freaking out. Selena is a safe space for him, a comfort. She brings him happiness and without her, he felt lost. This is around the time that we got the “Ghost” performance on the 2021 VMA stage. No one could deny the amount of emotion Justin displayed on that stage while singing for a lost loved one. He did what he could to reach her. He even sent flowers to her hotel the weekend of the Critic’s Choice Awards 2022. Selena never got those flowers. Her team ensured she never saw them. So how did they start talking again? Do you remember on Selena’s 30^th birthday a rare photo strip of Selena and Justin at Selena’s 20th birthday party was posted for auction on eBay? It was being discussed online how interesting the timing was because it was posted exactly on the 10-year anniversary of the date those pictures were taken. That photo strip sold for over $13,000. Can you guess who sold it? Justin wanted to get Selena’s attention and it worked. Fans correctly speculated it was him because he is known to do strange things on the internet on her birthday. After that they started talking here and there, but once the bullying incident happened the floodgates opened.

Today Selena and Justin are in regular communication. Yes, they are technically broken up and Justin is married to someone else. This doesn’t change the fact that emotionally Selena and Justin are still very much a couple. I want to reiterate we are not Jelena stans. We just want to help you see through all the PR bullshit and lies. Justin was taken advantage of and used by Hailey and her family for their own gain. That marriage was stolen. Hailey and Justin are unhappily married, anything you see is for the cameras only. Justin wants to be married to Selena. Selena is waiting for Justin. Selena has not moved on. That is the truth. I am not saying that they will get back together or even that they should. I am just telling you how they feel and what happened. The fraud marriage took years to make happen. They used everything at their disposal and successfully got the job done. Now we see three unhappy people. 

Written by: Barbara Jeanne Written by: KI💐