DON'T CHASE.. IT HAS TO BE MUTUAL

 When you like someone, you tend to hang on to every word. Asking everyone, what does that mean? When in the other persons mind that you are infatuated with it probably meant absolutely nothing or not literally exactly what was are thinking. In your mind it meant everything. You will do crazy things, ride by the person’s house, call and make up so stupid reason why you need to speak to them. Every song reminds you of them. You must have at least ten songs you can think of right off the top of your head. You also see their favorite things and think; I’ll be nice and pick this up for them. They will like me more for this, wrong! It doesn't make the person like you more. They may think you are a nice person but doesn’t make them more attracted to you, or love you. IF they are not attracted to you and you giving them things, it may make them feel more obligated not to hurt your feelings, but in the end, you don't win. We can't say why someone likes one person and not another, it is just how the world works. If the other person likes you they will let you know, if they don’t they should gently let you go. If they don’t and aren’t treating you right why are they keeping you around? If you have strong feelings it makes it tough to break it off. Why though on their part, if they are not digging you and you can feel it do they call and text just enough to keep you hanging on. Either because they are not sure, or you could be the backup plan. Which makes you are plan B. No one should ever accept to be plan B. Now if there is another girl involved, then you need to bow out, that will not only make you look like a stronger person, it will give the person time to think and actually force them to make a decision. By hanging around you make things too easy on them. Especially If they are taking care of the other person, and you are taking care of them, who is taking care of you. Barbara Jeanne  xo