No Potty Mouth

We are so used to using words that aren't exactly nice that we carry them into our relationship. I am one not to curse to begin with. I guess why is because when I was in eighth grade I thought it was cool and a boy came up to me and said you are so pretty, you shouldn't be talking like that. It made an impact on me that lasted my lifetime. So it is something I have practiced and in my research something I found men aren't thrilled with as well. In a relationship, when you get into a heated argument, right away, maybe the word bitch might come out of the guys’ mouth and the girl will throw one back. Believe it or not that is verbal abuse and neither the man nor woman should be talking like that. So woman remember that in most relationships we actually lead. Men mirror us woman. So if you bring it into the relationship it is your fault. A man should never talk to you like that nor should you to him. One time in my entire life, in a relationship I was in my boyfriend said f*** you, and I replied back, yea you do but i don't cum. He never said it again. That was the one and only time I was ever told a bad word in a relationship. I'm not saying walk around like angels, you dropped something on your toe you might scream out f*** or whatever, but don't practice using it on each other. xo Barbara Jeanne