The Way You Love

The way we love as I was saying before gets mirrored back. So if you are hard and cold, after a while that is what will be mirrored back to you in a relationship. You want to keep it soft and loving. You want to be tender to each other. If you practice this each day, you will learn that this is how you do it. Men follow woman, sorry to say, in this department. Most times it is the woman that has to remember, everything sugar and spice brings back the same. I'm not saying that you can't, or won't argue but I am saying that if you treat you man with care and love from the get go that is what you should get back. They will learn and follow, but more important, they will want to follow how you are treating them. Not just because it feels nice to be treated so sweetly, hopefully also because they care. Now if for some reason they don't follow you, that is when you remind them how you treat them and will accept nothing less. You want a kind loving relationship; this is a suggestion that might help. Try this and see if it might work. xo Barbara Jeanne