Believe...In You

At a Christmas party I was talking to a girl that had a one year old. She said to me, I wanted to wear something like you are wearing but my friend said to me “I needed to cover my big butt". First off, her butt was not big, second how dear that friend. When stating something you want to say. Use a little kindness in your words. I told her you could have worn this. She had less confidence because of what her friend had said. I think that there is so much negativity from one person to another, no wonder people is so unsure of themselves. So I am not saying lie. Think how you would like to be told. If there is someone in your life that is negative, that is not a healthy relationship. Yes people get down or can be in a bad mood at times but if that is their personality is this as a whole... It is time to let it go at least for now. Sometimes a friend that you were so close to, or even a relationship you may be in, you need to back up for a bit. A best friend down the line can become an old friend and a relationship can turn around in a positive direction when they know you will not accept being put down and negativity. You can do badly alone. You can beat yourself up. When you feel this way it is the positive people that you want in your life. Stay away from people that bring you down and you need to do this. So many people are depressed at times, even on anti-depressants. If you need them for goodness sakes take them, but give this a try.  If you are feeling down find things that make you happy. Hang out with friends, family or do a hobby you like. Have fun in life and you will see you will attract a more positive and happier life. If you believe in you....people will we to! XO BARBARA JEANNE