Do Men & Woman Want the Same Things

Working in the gym, listening to almost every man and woman. Asking everyone that comes my way, in a relationship or not. What is it that you want, here is what I got. Men do wants relationship, but they don't want to waste their time on something they feel is not going to work.So that makes them tend to go from woman to woman. Although they say it is very hard to find a woman. I asked men how often do you want to see a woman, then said it depends, if she is cool and can hang, then they want to be around her more. Men said they hate being bitched at, that they toss those woman to the side. They don't like women that call them all the time, they want to do the calling and they don't like when woman want to go to fast. If they go on a date and she makes future plans to fast, maybe to meet the children, it is a turn off. Another might be if you do have sex on the first date, woman expect it is the start of a relationship. Men said they actually like to work for it, a bit of a challendge. Next, let me tell you what the woman said. They don't feel many men want relationships, they feel once they have sex with them, they don't hear from the man. Woman want relationships, but say it seems men and relationships are hard to come by or find and less men seem to really actually want a relationship. So they feel if they do find a man that wants a relationship, they are keepers. Also if they find a man that is good to them and wants one, they will give them a chance. That seems to be becoming more important these days, then those men with an edge. You kow the good looking guy that seemed to be hard to figure out. Woman over thrty says that is so not appealing. Woman don't want to play games, don't have time for it. So what I got womem and men both want a relationship, but it seems to me men want to find the right person. I hate to say this, but I think men still are thinking with there little heads alot and that is were their mistake is. Woman seem to be giving more men a chance, although they also seem to be going by their chemistry meter. When people realize it's what in the heart and how you are treated. Chemistry fades becuse you see the person for who they are, then that makes you see this person you were so in wow over  in a different light. It's nice to have good outsides but it is what in the inside that last and counts in the end. Nobody really wants a good lookingh nasty person. So if you ave fun, with a good conversation and you are feeling them a bit, give them a chance. You never know! xo Barbara Jeanne