Women, Ten Turn ons For a Man

1. Be happy! Men love to see a woman laughing, enjoying life. Positive woman is a plus. Men are drawn to woman who are.
2. Be confident! Have an opinion. What do you want?  Don't leave all the decissions for the man, They like help, and don't want to make them all. Talk, express but please don't nag or bitch!
3. Dress to impress! We all have those days that we want to be pajama mamas, or for you single girls, laid back. You also need those days though, when you bring your game on and dress to impress.
4. Carry a conversation! Know what your man likes to talk about and talk about things you like, but talk. A man loves when he doesn't have to carry the conversation all the time, and when he is talking, maybe about sports. Try know what he's saying. Espn, breaks it down, so you don't have to watch every sport. Whatever your man is into search it, you can even goggle it. So do your homework'
5. Say it's okay to touch! So many woman pull away from their man when being touched. After a while, it becomes a thing of the past because they have tried so many times. So if  it's because of a few extra pounds or you didn't shave, they don't care. It is a turn on to being able to touch. Men like to know that you are theirs.
6. Cook! I'm not saying all the time, but once in awhile, put your apron on and cook. So many people have turned to fast food and fast cooking. Once in awhile make a nice meal light the candles and eat.
7. Bring on the romance! So many times woman expect it is the mans jobs to wine and dine us. Or the man should approach us for a hug. Sometimes we woman actually wait to see how long it takes for the man to realize and come give us ladies a hug. It has to be both parties working at romance.
8. Bring on the sex! Two different things, don't leave it for the man to say " hey you want to fool around" woman you are right, it is a turn off. So we need to teach the man how it is done right. By doing so it boomerangs back the right way in our direction. Put on a cute little sexy outfit. That you fell comfortable in. Do it your own way, or what your man likes, but do it. Showing him you have taken time to clean up. Not every night, but special nights, so he won't go to bed with the worn out boxers. 
9. Do what he likes, even if you don't! There are times we don't like to do everything your man likes, even though when you were trying to get him to commit, or if you still are, we liked just about everything. Once the commitment is down, we lose over half their interest and actually don't want the man to do it anymore as well. Let him be him, and he will love you more for allowing this.
10. Stay you! What does these one mean? Stay the person that he met. Yes, we all change but sometime woman change so much that you are no longer the woman that your man fell in love with and that eventually is a deal breaker. So be true and be you from the get go. If you do have a big change of heart, atleast explain but keep the communication open. Men aren't big talkers, but they would like to know, why you are acting like a completely different person.                                                              So woman don't think it is all on you, the mans list is next. I would hope that you would want to keep up the relationship in a healthy direction. The best way of doing that is by not pushing them away, having good conversations, keeping the closness, that includes touching and sex. Let them see you in a different light at times, do dress to impress. Let them be who they are. Enjoy each other but most impotantly show them love and have fun! XO BARBARA JEANNE