Getting the Man or Woman You Want

This one isn't too hard. The hardest element is, does this man or woman want to be in a relationship. If you meet someone and you two click and hit it off that is a great thing. Now there are a couple relationship breakers, one is chasing after the person. Let it come naturally. If it is the real deal, then it will. Second, nagging is another big one. Oh and let us not forget about being too needy or clingy. That is a no no. Other than those, it is how the two of you interact. First there must have been some kind chemistry; next, you got to have fun. That is a given. You have to make the other person have the want to see you. Either because they have fun with you, or you brighten their day or both. Both are a plus. Next you have to build. That is the comfort level that you can each by being yourself around one another. Then it's a plus if you wow them in the sex department. Woman want to feel their man can take charge and keep them feeling safe. Men want a woman that can keep them on their toes, keeping them to have the want to come back for more. I'm not just talking sex, but you making them happy. Last you both need to have the same goals, be on the same page. The page is commitment. If one is ready and the other is not how long until the other person is? That is a question you need to ask, because you don't want to waste time. Time is too precious. If it’s months, well ok that is not asking too much. But years...no! If it is right, there should be no hesitation. When it's right, it's right and there isn't any if our but. So when you want that woman or man, easiest way to find what you want is to make sure the person you are looking at or for, is on the same page. Then there is no confusion from the start. Which brings you in for smoother sailing? xo Barbara Jeanne

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[DIANE]

GREAT POST...LOVED IT AND SO TRUE....BARB IS THE BEST