10 Things to Please Men in Bed
Friday, January 7, 2011 at 06:07PM 1. Be confident. Don't start flopping all over like a fish because you are embarrassed if he touches you. Don't say turn the lights off because you don't want him to see you. Feel beautiful and sexy, then he will feel it too.
2. Wear something to impress. If you are in a long term relationship, it may be hard to shower and shave every night before bed, but even if you aren't going to have sex, it as easy to throw on a cute night gown or pj'sas it is to throw on and old tee shirt. It makes them want to hold you, touch you. Especially, if it is a satin, silk or a soft material, they will love to feel it and you. Plus it puts the thought of sex in their heads and you always have the choice to say, not tonight honey.
3. Walkaround naked after the shower, or when changing. No, not everynight, but once in awhile, That's the night you slip the sexy undies on. Then don't forget to apply your lotion. Bend over and let him see you tits hang and apply it sensually. Even if they are tiny winy, guys love it. 4 .Always end the night with a kiss a sweet dreams and a good night, guys dig that. It's a sweet gesture and keeps the communication open.
5. If argueing, settle it before bed, and if possible have some great make up sex. Spontaneous is good at times.
6. Believe it or not how you interacted during the day, is how they will feel about you when it is time to go to bed. It you bitched, nagged, and yelled all day, then all they are thinking is, I rather be in this bed alone. Especially if this is something common. After awhile, the man doesn't even want to be botherd. iI know men at times do crappy thing that you want to yell. Remember they aren't your child, so don't yell at them as they were. I'm not saying you can never fight, but choice your battles. Speak to them on the same level.Nobody would want someone that rags and puts then down all the time. Would you?
7. Praise your man during sex, you may have to teach them how to get there but always let them know they did a great job and you did cum like never before, well until the next time.
8. Make time for sex, quickies are great, but don't be huffing and puffing, like you can't wait for it to be done. Not only will it take longer because your man will probally go limp, but it is hurtful. we woman would not like it so, don't do what you wouldn't like done to you.
9. Ask your man what pleases him, licking his balls, alittle butt action, biting his nipples. Do the same for you, tell your man what you like. It will be easier to please both of you if you know what direction to go.
10. Don't lay there like a dead fish, moan, groan and act like it's the best thing since shopping at a really good sale and finding everything you wanted. Don't let him do all the work. Fuck the shit out of him. Go down on him like you love it. That will leave him satified and that will make him want to come back for more. It also willl make him come alot faster so you have more time for your much needed sleep. Only kidding!
Most men think about sex alot. The most important thing is when they do, you want them to be thinking of you. Not the girl he saw on the train, in his office or at the gym. You are the one that he should be thinking about, so make it that he does! XO BARBARA JEANNE
Reader Comments (2)
great words Babs .....this is everything i do...and he loves me for 7 months so far...hi Garry
hi baby love ya xo