Timing Makes A Relationship

         When two people meet and connect there are other things that come into play. First off are both people ready mentally to enter a relationship. People think they are and all is going fine until their baggage that is still holding them down is back to haunt them. What started out to be a wonderful beginning is quickly falling apart. It can really suck when you know in your heart you have a good thing but your other half is now blinded by what  they thought was done and over, either in their mind or heart.  So can anything be done, or should we just let it go? Well here is the thing; it’s hard to find that love that you feel in your gut that is right. When you do find it you don’t want to let go and give it up so easily. You can do two things, back up a bit and don’t put all your energy into a relationship that might leave you broken hearted but before you back up tell them how you feel. If you feel that you two have something special and you feel they feel it as well, say it. It’s important to bring up memories that you two have shared and how special it was when you two first met, maybe how you met. Lastly you have to tell them it would be a shame to let go of the present for the past that didn’t work out. You cannot change what someone has in their mind. That’s why I always say build memories, it’s very important. This way when they take time and they are alone they will reason which one means more at this present time. Once they realize the other relationship is in the past they might come back and continue with you with an even better relationship being ready now. If you don’t want to wait let it go and move on. Either way if you too had something as special as you think, they will be back, but when the timing is right. Do not allow the yoyo affect. Where they come, then disappear and come and disappear. If you allow this who knows how long this could go on. Timing is everything. So that’s why it’s important to really handle people’s hearts with care. If you know you aren’t ready and probably won’t be able to pull it off, then don’t pull someone into it know you will leave them with a broken heart.