I Bleed & I Bruise But What's It To You (Stop Hurting the Person You Love)

Two people meet; some are in search for a hang out buddy. Other people are looking to enjoy each another’s company and to see where it might lead. We also have the people that are looking for a partner to fall in love and become that couple in hopes to last a lifetime. Although all intentions are good in each situation by both parties but as time goes by it seems to somehow begin to become an effort to be cordial at times. This is when you start hurting one another’s feelings to the point it leaves a permanent burn. When words come out of your mouth most times you are trying to hurt the person feelings because at this point you are so mad at them. Not thinking these words will not be able to be easily forgotten. It is not one single situation, it’s each time you fight and harsh words comes out that leaves a permanent mark in someone’s heart and on someone’s mind. This is where the big problem starts and where dislike comes into the picture. What you are doing is making memories, the bad ones that will or could start to be the beginning of the end. Yes you can get mad or upset at your partner but chose your words carefully. Do not pick words that hit below the belt, belittle the other or hurt them to the point they will begin to dislike you. This is what most definitely happens. This is a big reason that we do not make it to always and forever, our mouths and the hurt that comes from with it. Next it is our actions. With hurt words become the cold actions and it then snow balls into the wrong direction. Many times we can’t get back the love that we once had and many times you are throwing away a good thing because you are acting wrong. We are taught to treat people with care. Even if you may not have been taught this we learn from society. So what would make you think you can treat the person you love like shit and expect the best. Remember the hurtful things you say or do cannot be taken back. You are also teaching the person you are with how to treat you by how you treat them. So if you treat them with kind words and love this is what you should expect and get back in return. Even if you are mad and want to yell make sure it is in reason. This way you can hold you own, that you were right and their behavior was hurtful or wrong towards you. Remember two wrongs don’t make it right and people feelings do get hurt. What type of person do you want to be? How do you want to be treated and how do you want to treat the person that you say “I love you to”. Barbara Jeanne xo