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Thursday
Jun212012

A Man Loving Their Women More Makes A Lasting Relationship? Yes!

My mom has given me good advice my whole life; everything she has taught me has always come to be true. She has always said the man should love the women more. This is one of the assets in how to have a lasting relationship. So although with what I have seen and learned from myself so far she is absolutely right. I still wanted to make sure this was good advice so I took this question to the streets and I ask one hundred couples. Out of the hundred couple this is what I learned and I guess already knew. The men said this advice was absolutely true. For those men that did love their wives more, till this day they feel they are still more in love with their wives. The way the spoke about their wives with such love and admiration was amazing. The wives would come back with “I love you” but not one disagreed that the men loved them more. So it is important that people need to stop chasing that person that you want to be with. If you two are meant to be and the person knows you, who you are and what you’re about they will come back. Do not wait on what could be, move on with your life and keep your options open. Second women need to stop loving that man that doesn’t love you back. It’s horrible for your self-esteem and it can start a pattern for you going for the wrong man. You can also start getting into the habit of being treated like crap. I am talking to men as well in this case. Both men and women need to put an end of those relationships where you are miserable and not being treated as you should. Also the person that loves more in the relationship controls the relationship. That doesn’t mean they are allow to treat you badly it means they are the ones that usually takes charge. So ladies let those men do the work. Allow them to come to you, most men, most of the time like the challenge and to be the hunter. Men if a woman shows no or little interest do not invest your time. Keep moving to someone that will appreciate you. Hopefully these few tips will make people think a bit, and how to go about getting into a good relationship. Barbara Jeanne xo

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