When Looking For A Partner....

When looking for a partner you have an idea of what you like, the qualities that may be important to you. Working in gyms for many years I heard girls and women of all ages talking about their dates. The first questions they would ask, was he cute, what did he drive and what does he do. Although it goes deeper as the conversation goes on but standing there over hearing these conversations it always struck me a bit funny. Always thinking shouldn’t they be asking was he nice, did he treat you like a lady, open your door. Maybe even did you have fun? Not asking if this guy you went out on a date with took you somewhere expensive? I am by no means saying girls are all superficial and let’s not leave out the men. Most men go into a room and they will zoom into the hot girl and think wow yeah that’s what I want. Who even know if this person is a nice woman? She may be but instead of even checking if they are off trying to get to know this girl you now are in conquer for. Even looking at dating sites, Facebook and sites like it, men are already trying to meet or talk to the girl they think are hot. So forward at times I wonder would a man act like this is person and if they did, do they think they would get the girl. Most men are sweet as well as the women, the point I am trying to make is, wouldn’t it be more important how the man or women treated you. If they are fun to be with and do the make you feel happy and good inside. Next do they have a job and if they go into a relationship with you they are willing to work together with you and be a team? If you are looking for a commitment are they as well. There are so many important things to look at before what the drive or what they spent on you. What you should be looking for is a person that you are interested in have a loving heart and is their loving heart aimed at loving you. Barbara Jeanne xo