Looking for Love & Don't Want to Be Alone but When You Find It, You Push It Away, Why? (And the Benefits of Love)

s it is an epidemic of people telling me daily that they are so lonely. They are tired of being alone and are so desperately in search of finding a significant other. But I feel as if we are going about it the wrong way. If we are in search of someone to love then why is 70% of the population still single. This is from statistics that recently came out leaving only 30% in a relationship. So if so many people are asking me to be fixed up, so many people that are saying they want someone to come home to and snuggle up with. Why is there such a big gap for those in relationships and those that are not? We want to be in a relationship but once we achieved meeting someone, it seems many times we find a flaw in what and who you thought they were. Maybe it’s not them maybe some people have been single so long it’s hard to adapt to having to answer to someone. Having thinking alone without someone putting their input in could be challenging and when you think one way and your honey may have a different option. Your no longer can just do what you want you now have someone to answer to. And after you have been alone and single you have become bachelors and bachelorettes. So how can we adjust our behavior to adapt to the benefits waving out to the plus that we would receive? Because it sure is pretty nice to know that someone truly cares for you. It’s nice that they will be there when you get home. How great would it be that someone can become a part of your life that you can share your day with or more importantly to enjoy life with? This person can become your best friend, your better half the person you can grow old with. All you have to do is open your life to having another fit in. Once you learn two heads are better than one. As well as two of hearts that beat as one can turn into a beautiful romance. Stop being so picky finding flaws to make the situation with a person not work. Yes it might have been you alone for a while, maybe you’ve been hurt but you’ll continue to get in bed alone and keep moaning you want someone to share your life with if you don’t allow being loved or to love. Barbara Jeanne xo