Being Able to Wear Want You Want Not What Just Fits (Believe You Can Lose The Unwanted Weight)

Can you absolutely say you are at the weight you want to be? Can you honestly say that all the clothes you chose to wear are the ones that are your first choice? Do you go to the stores and see clothes and say I wish I could wear that. Yet when you see a woman in a tight little dress you are almost always the one to say something negative. Her dress is too tight, too short, too this, too that. But deep down you are envious wishing you could be wearing that cute little dress. Although girls will say I would never wear that, or that outfit is too sleazy. They would love the idea that men would think you look hot. It’s not being vain but it’s natural to be wanted, desired especially from your man. Your man will look at another woman wearing something tight and cute but you think it is not appropriate. When you know you want your man to look at you this way. It’s a wonderful feeling to know your man thinks you are hot. It’s not always a tiny weeny dress that you have to wear; the choice is so wide to wearing something that is can look impressive and appealing. The thing is you shouldn’t have to live your life at a weight that you are unhappy with. To feel overweight and not being able to wear what you like hurts deep down. You can say that it doesn’t and you don’t care but if you are a girl you do. Not that you have to be perfect but you want to feel attractive, pretty and it feels nice to see that people notice you. You should love yourself and want to take care of yourself. I see people getting their hair done, getting their nails done. But you need to keep your body up, it's the most important thing you have. Being fit and healthy gives you and edge to looking and feeling better. So am I saying that people that are not fit are worth less, not at all but I am saying that being fit and taking care of yourself makes you feel a whole lot happier and that snowballs into other parts of your life. Taking care of yourself should not be a chore but it’s definitely not fun at times but when you see the results in a positive way, you should be proud of yourself. Barbara Jeanne xo