Men Get Lazy Way to Fast, How to Stop It

Men seem to be getting comfortable way to fast these days and it needs to stop. Women are allowing men to behave in this manner, but women we need to get some of that knight in a shiny amour back in our men. I know we woman can open up a door but when I see a guy just go to his own side of the car to leave his woman to open her door it pisses me off. Not only do you not open the door, you men are lazy when it comes to doing the manly things. Most men do not romance their woman anymore, or they romance till you think you have the women in pursuit locked down. Even the ones that are courting us ladies and doing a great job can’t seem to pull it off for more than a period of time. Men need to be more attentive. I don't mean spending your last dime on us. I mean, sending sweet texts, married or not, calling just to hear our voices. Picking flowers if you don't have the money to buy them. Stop waiting on us woman to ask or tell you what you men know you should be doing. Then when woman get upset, you act surprised and saying we’re bitching and nagging. Maybe if you did the little things, being more attentive, woman wouldn't sweat you when you men want to sit and watch the game. If you know you’re doing the right things and your woman nags then you have the right to ask her to stop. You men can't be selfish, work and then it's your time, married or single. You need to dress up and take you woman out even if it’s to somewhere simple. Massage her without her asking or thinking it is going to end with a happy ending for you. If a woman doesn't think her man can handle those things he should be doing or just won't do, it’s a turn off to woman. Then you wonder when women are dumping your ass to find someone that will open a door, or romance her even if we know that might end. We’ll take it while it last. So do these simple things before your ass is dumped and all alone. Woman will do almost anything a man ask, woman are sick and tired of hearing our men excuses, or more often just ignoring us completely. If woman are loved, and her man is attentive to her she is content. Her heart will stay content as well, because she fells in our heart she has someone that cares. So married men don't go with the phrase “you’re working so hard trying to pay these bills and you’re tired”. Well, you ass is going to be working for all of you but you'll being paying it the first of the month in alimony and child support because you will be alone. Men don’t let it get this far to lose your family. Isn’t your family and wife worth the effort? For the single girls, don't accept less than his best from the get go, and make sure you make it a point to keep him at that level. He showed you he can do it so he can. Why accept less later? All ladies married and single should expect, want and receive more from your man! Woman will give their man the world, you men need to give us back at least half of that and we will be happy. Show your woman you want to be with them, I don’t need to go into how. Men you know how to treat a women you do it to get, the problem is you stop, then women start nagging and it snowballs! Get your act together it doesn’t take much to keep most women happy so do it, or stop crying why are you alone? Barbara Jeanne xo