He Loves Her, She Loves Him, it's a Situation You'll Never Win

For those that read up on my articles, I once told you about a girl that was the perfect suburban housewife and mother of two. To the point she was being controlled and losing her identity. Her husband didn't like her to go out and she also had to dress conservative. The perfect wife got cheated on by her two timing no good of a husband. Not only because he cheated, he was parting up a storm, reck their car and wasn't bring home the money. Everyone was telling this perfect so called wife, but she was sweeping it under the rug along with all of their other problems. So he got a night time job as a janitor and fell in love with his co worker. A girl with no morales, I would guess. That has got to be the lowest to take someones elses husband. You might say you can't take someone, they chose to go. You can say..these words if you run into someone that is married and wants to be with you..NO! Anyway he doesn't try to hide it for long. He practically was happy when he got caught. Now he thought he had every mans dream a wife and a mistress. Going around bragging as if he was the man. To me he is acting like a little boy in need of a whopping. At first she goes a long with this disturbing game and her friends and family are so disgusted, they get her to see the light and she says no more. The only problem is that the husband really lost it and thinks it is okay to bring another woman into their house and lay down in their bed. The wife freaked out and the two girls duke it out with the husband standing ring side. What a mess this is turning into, and the wife losing the man and the fight getting a big chuck of hair taken from her head. So what does the husband do console both, one the night of the incident, the other the following day. the mess gets bigger and dirtier. The suburban housewife now becomes friends with a married man that is wining and dining her. Making her feel all special..well isn't that special..Now his wife knows about it and this suburban housewife is putting this down and out ...oh I forgot to tell you..this down and out housewife is preganant, and in the same predicament the suburban housewife was in. Thinking there is nothing wrong...that he grabs her butt, spanks her ass and kisses her lips...she says this is exactly what she needs right now, someone to bump up her confidence, while she is tearing down this mans wife. Doesn't anyone have morals these day. All those people that are dating married men and woman should be ashamed of themselves. Even if you are talking to a married man on the computer and you are having anon line relationship, it is wrong. Although you do have to remember what goes around comes around and karma is a bitch, especially when it is bad karma that is coming back to bite you on your ass. As the saying goes two wrongs don't make a right. What she is doing is wrong. What her husband is doing is wrong and the poeple that the brought into this situation are wrong. So if you look at this situation that happens more than you would think, and you might be saying, you have to stay for the kids, or you have nowhere to go. Following this situation where in a few days there will be an intervention, this whole chaotic situation will start to crumble, until it is all completely unraveled. Stop and think, before you act. Is it worth throwing away your whole life and family. Some people try to have it both and it never works. So before you jump into the pool of craziness...think! XO Barbara Jeanne