How to Protect Your Heart ftom getting it Broken (why guys & girls act like they do)

When you are in a relationship many times there is always one that loves one more than then the other, but that’s okay. My mother says it works better when a man love the women more. I have to say I believe her for the most part. Although many times it is the man that comes on strong, conquers the woman’s love and then pulls away leaving the girl devastated and in shock. Crying eyes, broken heart and in the state of “I thought he really liked me”. What may have gone wrong? I believe one out of three things most likely. Either the guy really liked you but wasn’t ready for a commitment and who knows may come back. Second he went too fast and wants to slow it down and this mean he doesn’t quite know how to do so. So what does he do? He slows down on the visits, the calls and the text. Girls still feel at a lost because you get close to the guy and are used to the closeness. So this hurts as well. Lastly the guy conquered your body, it is what he wanted and now he bailed. That would mean you should have kept your legs closed ladies, at least until he offered you a commitment. But overall he still is a bit of a dick. You were wrong but if that’s wants a guy wants they should have the guts to be up front and tell the girl that is all they want from them is sex, period. This leaves the girl to have the choice to say yes or no but I’d say it better be “hell no”. So how do we know how to not get hurt and protect our hearts? We can’t always know but we can see the red flags that we might notice to say “wait a minute something doesn’t seem right. I don’t want to be bias for just women. I know men get hurt as well. Many ladies play on men to get what they want and this is a crappy thing to do to anyone. Men can be sensitive and really are looking for love. Some ladies want a man to spend mega money to wine and dine them with no intentions for more than a casual thing. As well women are actually using men for sex, I know go figure but it’s true. So when it comes to people hearts be caring and don’t do to another, what you would not want done to you. If you treat people with love and care, hopefully this is exactly what will come back to you when cupid does hit you. Barbara Jeanne xo