Bring Back Good Old Fashion Love & How

Once upon a time men wanted relationships, it made them feel whole by loving and being loved by someone that they held special and dear to them. Most women love to be in love but many are also getting into the habit of just having sex. Although we are adults and we want to feel good, using vibrators, watching porn and all these internet mingle sites are crushing real loving relationships that could be. Are we getting satisfied by just flirting, hooking up and going for the hot guy or lady to have a casual fling? I am by no means saying all men and women are acting in this behavior or fashion. It can hurt those people that are out there trying to find and be in a loving relationship. They may run into someone that is looking for fun and all they end up with is a broken heart and have wasted a lot of time. Why? Because people are not always honest in what they are truly interested and looking for. Many run into people playing it up as if they want a relationship when they just want to have fun, heck some are already in a relationship. Sometimes both are in relationship and their significant other has no idea. So what is my point? We need to step back from our computers and get out into the real world. They say by using the computer to the extreme if you are using it for your means of relationships; friendships and mingling you are sending your brain the wrong unhealthy message. You are then acting on that behavior. Put porn or sex sites into the equation and this really is a relationship killer, many get hooked on being stimulated by different means instead of the real thing. It is also said that playing harsh video games does not send the right message to your brain to want or have a healthy loving relationship. We need to step away from our computers, even if it’s for the weekend. If it is work you must do on line. Do your work and step away. If you are addicted to porn, sex or dating sites you need to stay off them for nineties days to break the habit. It is important to bring back old fashion; I need and can’t live without a person. To love someone that is real and not an internet friend. This obsession is killing romance and if we lose love that would come to really suck one day. Barbara Jeanne xo