Getting Mentally Ready To Conquer Love After a Break Up

When you are entering into a relationship after your divorce and yes please try to wait until you are completely single. Believe me you are really not ready before hand, especially if it is a relationship following by a painful break up or a long term union. Take time to regroup and get your head together, by doing so you will have a better chance of opening your heart to a healthier relationship. I am sure you have heard so many complaints how people bring there baggage to the next relationship making it doomed before you give it a good shot. It is not fair to the other person and you might lose out on a terrific person if you only waited a bit longer to get through whatever it is you head needs to clear out from. Recap on what may have went wrong, you don’t want the same situation to occur once again and take the blame for the wrong you may have done. Once you feel ready to venture out to meet someone, don’t compare them with the past. Think ahead to the opportunities of meeting someone new and how much fun it will be to experience a fresh untainted love. When you do find someone worth letting in do not talk about your past, if you are doing this continually you are not ready. Take a step back and then try it again. When the right person does come along and the timing is right allow your heart to open up to a fresh new beginning. You are now ready to love without the baggage which gives you the chance of getting your new relationship on the right road to success and happiness. Remember that what you had is over and it ended for a reason. Don’t go back to what could of, should of, would have happened because the truth of the matter it’s over and done. For you to look back is holding you back. Yes there are memories that are stored in your mind, but as far as letting it stifle you to not enter into another relationship would be ashamed. Love is the most wonderful thing that stimulates and heightens your life in the most positive way. So be ready when love comes knocking. Barbara Jeanne xo